| There is so many people who think what romance is, they think they can basically buy romance. But can you really buy it? What we really think about it?… I think this picture explain it in a way…
The whole Romance works for two people who are in REAL LOVE, not in the first phase of ecstasy of having someone in your life, not when we are infatuated first few months… we know when that one ends….I must say do we think why it does? We do things for each other to show that we care and love the person. It takes time to fall in love. But some people have a tendency to fall in love easily. It usually takes less than a minute to determine whether we like a person or not. But a lot more time should be taken to decide whether we love a person or not.We all desire to find partners with the perfect qualities. But when you seek perfection in a relationship, you’re building something up to doom. The more we expect, the more we get disappointed. Besides love, relationships require work, effort and action, and many people are just not prepared for that. When you’re with somebody for a long time and you don’t get the same attention from them as you used to, problems will begin to arise. When you resent change, you’d start to resent your partner and ultimately, the love starts to crumble away. If you love your beloved, then you must show it. By the same token, if you are loved, that will show, too. You will recognize it by the way you are treated. So, rather than ask, “What is love?” we must ask, “Do I perform acts of love for my beloved?” and “Does my beloved perform acts of love for me?” (romance) If there is no LOVE there is no ROMANCE….. and the circle is closed. Love and romance do not end, if you REALLY love the person, because we tend to try more and more to make the other person happy. I guess for me smiling of the other person when they see me, is enough telling them that you are happy that they made you smile too… there are lots of things we can do for romance, and not buy a thing… people generally want to feel appreciated, want to feel loved… you can easily show it, but hugs, kisses, and being happy that your spouse just came home to you and no one else… Generally people in life get lost with priority, the money takes over, and other stuff…. and I have noticed we get more grossed by two people kissing each other in public, over the people who fight…. why? Love is beautiful show it… If you really LOVE someone your Romance will never ends… To all I wish to find first the RIGHT person to LOVE, not the one we would change the first moment we have chance to do it… Only if you LOVE the person as they are, this has a chance to survive it… and blossom in the best romance you ever heard of… one more thing there has to be two people on the same level, there is never real LOVE if one person loves and the other doesn’t…. no matter how hard you try it won’t work… This is why I think people should be HONEST about what they FEEL, if you are not happy go out of it… tell other person what does not work, maybe you can fix it… but mainly in my opinion find who suits you, then and only then it will work. No person will change for you, some make some changes in the first few months but after those, they get discouraged and go back to their own ways…. Romance can be only kept if you have RIGHT partner, and you both want the other person to be happy … I wish all the best in finding that, because I know ROMANCE exists for the right couples… |
